1. Write the list with the value of what you paid and what it is
worth. So family member has an idea if the auction house is
giving a desent price. THIS MUST BE UPDATED YEARLY
2. Give family member, lawyer or whomever a few top auction house
s and which one you wish them to use. I like Julias.
3. Do some estate planning with your attorney. IMO find someone
that specializes in this area.
4. Next don't worry anymore.