I am at a loss for words. Knowing how much Ben would have hated his situation, this is a blessing for him and a mercy for his family. He wouldn't of had it any other way. We had discussed this situation years ago (who would go first & could he have all my stuff) and easily decided that we didn't want to linger. I wasn't married then so his plan was to kick me into a ditch, pray for an early rain & run off with my stuff before the buzzards knew I was dead. Anyone who really knew Ben will recognize his humor. May God bless and welcome him .............
