Steve, this is a picture of the simple loading tools that I made. The Delrin rod is used for decapping, together with the anvil seen on the right. I modified my Lee Load-All to accept large pistol primers so I can use it for seating. I pour the powder in the shell and press a nitro-card down with the blunt end of the Delrin rod. The appropriate force is “in the wrist”; I never measured it. It is similar to what I use for tamping espresso.