Hi Tony,
I am so sorry to hear the bad news
Heres something to think about, cancer starts with a mutated gene, our bodies are supposed to have systems in place to sweep such genes out, for some reason it doesnt always work. When they finally find a cure for cancer, Im certain the cure will involve rallying ones bodies own defenses to defeat the cancer. Occasionally you hear about people having spontaneous remissions. I think whats happened is their own bodies defenses have finally kicked in and are doing what they were supposed to do in the first place. Pray for a spontaneous remission, or call it a miracle if you wish, but it does happen and it could happen to you.
My wife Gail and I prayed and prayed that shed get well from her cancer. It didnt happen, but it does occasionally happen, just be as positive as you can and dont give up hope.
Steve