Dave in Maine; it's clear you perceive yourself to be quite smart; a know it all, I'll say.
Let me inform you of something it's clear you don't know. I never screwed anyone, and that includes myself.
Twice you've said something like "Coming here and complaining".
That's not what I have done. Look at the Topic of my post; that is what I asked.
And Dave, don't ever presume to think you could ever tell me what I should or shouldn't do. I mean you can type & type all you want on an open forum, but it would be laughably wrong to presume you could ever tell me I am complaining when I am not, not helpful, that I've blown this or that, that I'm guilty of this or that, etc., etc.
These are my last two words to you, Dave in Maine: good bye