I don't understand the fuss about auto safties. Even the gods like Bill Jordan and Col. Cooper admit to AD's with rifles, pistols and shotguns.
IMHO, forgetting the safety is on is potentially less damaging than forgetting it's off. A missed bird or clay because of the safety is the shooter's responsibility, regardless. So is an accidental discharge. Given the choice, I'll take the embarrassment of missed shot over the AD any time. What works best for you may not be in my best interest.
If my mistake gets you off your game, you need to work on your game.