It's everyone's business that citizens not make law to suit their personal wishes. Courts and legislatures adjudicate within constitutions on this every day. Law controls behaviour. You're a rare person outside our common cage. Most prefer to choose how they want to live collectively, productively and harmoniously within our communities. The result has been reasonably satisfactory, whatever you call it in the land of the brave and home of the free. If this is inimical to an intellectual's concept of equality you'll have to live with it. Anarchy isn't an option.