Narcissists are so self-absorbed in their own personal perfections they can't see how their declarations are seen by a majority as personal defeats; in the case under review, each post weakens him and his intentions.

Some members respond sympathetically and with good humour or both---"Keith, we understand"---and I try to restrain myself (imperfectly) because it would be seen as foolishly bullying the afflicted instead of providing him comfort.

In my tender moments, I see him as a blessing, an example of what we become should we allow ridicule to efface our better instincts of love and respect. No other member speaks as rudely and disrespectfully, another blessing.

This board is truly laden with good values.