Loctite Black Max is the best I've found. To give the super glue come elasticity they added microscopic particles of rubber. Works fairly well but still leaves a lot to be desired. I add the shim to the hook. All pieces must be ultra clean and the inside of the shim should be scratched up to help adherence. I think solder would be the best answer but usually the shim is so thin it's very difficult to do (at least for me).

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