at 74, i have come to believe that everything in life is temporal....https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/This_too_shall_pass

we should enjoy the pleasant and happy times, and be willing to persevere the unfavorable and sad - neither is permanent.

as arlo gutherie sang..... just waiting for it to come around again...

sorry to learn that you drew the short straw....make the best of it, and look forward to better days.

best regards,
tom

"it's a poor sort of memory that only works backwards."
lewis carroll, Alice in Wonderland