Builder; I just celebrated my 20th wedding anniversry and your post has touched me deeply. All of us have and will go though very trying times. If you have the time I greatly suggest reading The Grief Recovery Handbook by author John W. James and Russell Friedman. It helped me when my mother dyed and also helped my father. I thought I was encouraging my father when I really did not understand what he was feeling. We did this through our church and there is a support system in place that you could call. Please; If you are feeling low,This is a wonderful blessing. I have a copy that I am more than happy to mail to you if interested. My email is tom@tophatchimneysweepsinc.com
I hope I can have such a wonderful relationship as you have had;
Tom Will